What's the psychology behind blame shifting?

Narcissism, shame sensitivity, or poor emotional regulation drive blame shifting. People deflect to protect ego and avoid the vulnerability of admitting mistakes.

How do you respond to someone who always blames you?

Use clear "I" statements, don't accept undeserved blame, set boundaries, and if patterns persist, reduce contact. Document patterns if needed for your safety.

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Blame Shifting: How Toxic People Avoid Responsibility

Peter Kolomiets

|March 24, 2026|Updated Apr 13, 2026|6 min read

Blame Shifting: How Toxic People Avoid Responsibility

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