What's an apology language?

How you best receive an apology. An "acts of service" person might appreciate their partner doing chores. A "quality time" person needs a heartfelt conversation. You apologize poorly if you use your love language, not theirs.

How do I know my partner's apology language?

Ask: "When I apologize, what makes you feel truly sorry was accepted?" Some need words; some need actions; some need time and consistency. Once you know, apologize *their* way, not yours.

Can someone have different love and apology languages?

Yes, often. Someone who speaks quality time as their love language might need acts of service to feel forgiven. After conflict, they want to *see* change, not just hear it. Understanding this makes repair more effective.