How does Sternberg's model apply to arranged marriages?

Arranged marriages often begin with low passion and commitment, with intimacy gradually developing through time and intention. Success depends on partners's willingness to build all three components rather than expecting passion first.

Do arranged marriages develop passion?

Often yes, though differently. Initial passion (infatuation) may be absent, but as intimacy develops, many arranged couples experience genuine romantic love and sometimes consummate love. Passion often deepens over years rather than months.

Are arranged marriages more stable?

Research shows arranged marriages have lower divorce rates in cultures where they're practiced, though this reflects cultural, religious, and economic factors as well as relationship dynamics. Stability depends on mutual effort and commitment.

What's the advantage of arranged marriages from a Sternberg perspective?

Partners aren't clouded by infatuation fantasy; they can build intimacy deliberately; commitment is explicit. The disadvantage: no initial passion, and if intimacy or commitment falter, there's less romantic motivation to repair.

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Sternberg's Model in Arranged Marriages: Building Love Intentionally

Peter Kolomiets

|April 4, 2026|Updated Apr 13, 2026|8 min read

Sternberg's Model in Arranged Marriages: Building Love Intentionally

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References

Sternberg, R. J. (1986). A Triangular Theory of Love
Gupta, N. P., & Singh, P. (1982). Arranged Marriages: A Cross-Cultural Comparison of Satisfaction Outcomes
Medora, N. P., Larson, J. H., & Dave, P. M. (2000). Cultural Context and Love Development in Arranged vs. Free-Choice Marriages

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