Can someone with narcissistic traits have a healthy relationship?

Only if they have genuine insight and are in intensive therapy. Most narcissists don't believe they need to change. They blame partners for problems. Even with help, real change is rare. Ask yourself: do you want to stay while they maybe, possibly change—or do you deserve better now?

Is it safe to confront a narcissist about their behavior?

No. Confrontation triggers defensiveness, rage, or victim-playing. They'll twist your words, play the martyr, and escalate. If you must share concerns, do it in writing, calmly, with minimal emotional language. But expect denial and retaliation.

How do I co-parent with a narcissist?

Set strict boundaries: communicate only about the children, use written communication, don't engage emotionally, keep schedules precise, document everything. Gray rock them—be boring, unemotional, unavailable for supply. They'll seek narcissistic supply elsewhere.

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References

Sandy Hotchkiss (2003). Why Is It Always About You? The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism
Elan Golomb (1992). Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists
Donald Dutton, Harriet Dutton (1992). The Narcissistic Family

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