Why Your Partner Shuts Down Arguments (And How to Keep Them Engaged)
|April 19, 2026|10 min read
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References
- John Gottman (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
- Andrew Christensen (2004). Pursue-Withdraw Patterns in Couples Conflict
- Stephen Porges (2011). Polyvagal Theory and Nervous System Shutdown
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