How does cross-test compatibility work?

Both people take the same set of personality tests (Big Five, MBTI, attachment styles, love languages, conflict styles). The compatibility report then maps trait overlap and complementarity across all five frameworks — not just one — and surfaces the patterns most predictive of long-term fit (attachment stability, agreeableness alignment, love-language reciprocity).

Is the report private?

Yes. Each report is keyed to a private invite link, viewable only by the two participants. We do not surface compatibility data on any public profile or feed.

Which tests should we both take?

Big Five and attachment styles give the strongest signal; love languages and conflict styles add useful relational nuance. The compatibility report is more accurate the more tests both people complete — minimum is Big Five + attachment.

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