Love & relationships
Enneagram in Relationships
Love styles, conflict patterns, attachment tendencies, compatibility, and growth advice for all 9 Enneagram types.
Type 1: The Perfectionist
Best with: Type 7, Type 9, Type 2
Ones love through improvement.
Type 2: The Helper
Best with: Type 4, Type 8, Type 1
Twos love by giving.
Type 3: The Achiever
Best with: Type 6, Type 9, Type 1
Threes love through achievement and providing.
Type 4: The Individualist
Best with: Type 9, Type 1, Type 5
Fours love with extraordinary depth and intensity.
Type 5: The Investigator
Best with: Type 1, Type 2, Type 4
Fives love through knowledge and understanding.
Type 6: The Loyalist
Best with: Type 9, Type 3, Type 8
Sixes love through loyalty and protection.
Type 7: The Enthusiast
Best with: Type 1, Type 5, Type 9
Sevens love through adventure, fun, and shared experiences.
Type 8: The Challenger
Best with: Type 2, Type 9, Type 4
Eights love fiercely and protectively.
Type 9: The Peacemaker
Best with: Type 3, Type 6, Type 8
Nines love through acceptance and peaceful presence.