Waɗanne ne abubuwa uku na alwatikar soyayya ta Sternberg?

Kusanci shine jin kusanci, haɗin kai, da goyon bayan zuciya. Sha'awa ita ce motsawar soyayya, sha'awar jiki, da sha'awar jima'i. Sadaukarwa ita ce shawarar son wani da kuma ci gaba da dangantakar. Haɗuwa daban-daban na waɗannan ukun suna haifar da nau'ikan soyayya takwas daban-daban.

Menene Cikakkiyar Soyayya?

Cikakkiyar Soyayya, inda dukkan abubuwa uku suke a matsayi mai girma, ita ce abin da mutane da yawa ke ɗauka a matsayin cikakkiyar ko mafi kyawun soyayya. Sternberg ya yarda cewa yana da wuyar cimmawa kuma ya fi wuyar kiyayewa, saboda sha'awa a dabi'ance tana raguwa da lokaci ba tare da kulawa mai ƙarfi ba.

Zan iya yin wannan gwajin ko da ba ni cikin dangantaka?

Eh. Kuna iya yin tunani game da dangantakar da ta gabata, dangantaka mai kyau, ko amsa bisa ga yadda kuke gabaɗaya a cikin dangantakar soyayya. Sakamakon yana da fa'ida don fahimtar tsarin dangantakarku ba tare da la'akari da halin da kuke ciki ba.

Shin ka'idar Sternberg an tabbatar da ita a kimiyyance?

Ka'idar Alwatika tana da goyon baya mai yawa na bincike. Ma'aunin Soyayya na Alwatika na Sternberg (wanda aka yi amfani da shi a matsayin tushen wannan gwajin) yana nuna inganci mai kyau kuma an tabbatar da shi a cikin al'adu da nau'ikan dangantaka daban-daban.

Nau'ikan soyayya nawa ne ka'idar ta bayyana?

Takwas. Samfurin Sternberg ya haɗa kasancewa ko rashin kasancewar kusanci, sha'awa, da sadaukarwa zuwa nau'ikan soyayya bakwai (Son Juna, Rudewa, Soyayyar Banza, Soyayyar Sha'awa, Soyayyar Abota, Soyayyar Wauta, da Cikakkiyar Soyayya) tare da Rashin Soyayya lokacin da duk ukun suka yi ƙasa. Manufar ba wai a sami lakabin “mai kyau” ko “mara kyau” ba ne, amma don ganin waɗanne abubuwa ne ke ɗauke da dangantakarku a halin yanzu.

Shin nau'in soyayyata yana canzawa da lokaci?

Eh — wannan hoto ne na ɗan lokaci, ba hukunci na dindindin ba. Aikin Sternberg da kansa ya bayyana sha'awa a matsayin wadda sau da yawa take kaiwa kololuwa da wuri sannan ta lafa, yayin da kusanci da sadaukarwa sukan ginu a hankali. Ma'aurata za su iya wucewa ta nau'ikan da yawa a cikin shekaru, don haka sakamako ya fi dacewa a karanta shi a matsayin 'inda muke yanzu', ba 'abin da muke ba'.

Shin wannan ainihin sigar bincike ce ta ma'aunin Sternberg?

A'a. Wannan gwajin tunani ne na tambayoyi 15 wanda aka daidaita daga samfurin abubuwa uku na Sternberg, ba ainihin Ma'aunin Soyayya na Alwatika na ilimi da ake amfani da shi a cikin binciken da aka buga ba. An gina shi ne don fahimtar kai da tattaunawa, ba a matsayin ma'aunin asibiti ko na bincike na lafiyar dangantaka ba.

Binciki Alwatikar Soyayyar Ku, Gwajin Sternberg na Tambayoyi 15 Kyauta

Ku yi gwajin Soyayya na Alwatika na Sternberg kyauta a intanet. Ku auna kusanci, sha'awa, da sadaukarwa a cikin dangantakarku kuma ku gano irin soyayyar da kuke yi. Tambayoyi 15, sakamako nan take.

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Yi wannan gwajin

Muhimman abubuwa

Menene Alwatikan Soyayya na Sternberg?

Ka'idar Soyayya ta Alwatika ta Robert Sternberg, wadda aka gabatar a 1986, tana ɗaya daga cikin samfuran da aka fi ambata a ilimin halayyar dangantaka. Tana nuna cewa soyayya ta ƙunshi abubuwa uku: Kusanci (kusancin zuciya da haɗin kai), Sha'awa (sha'awar soyayya da sha'awar jiki), da Sadaukarwa (shawarar ci gaba da dangantakar na dogon lokaci).

Karanta ƙari

Haɗuwa daban-daban na waɗannan abubuwa uku suna haifar da nau'ikan dangantaka daban-daban: Cikakkiyar Soyayya (duk ukun suna nan) ana ɗaukarta a matsayin mafi kyau; Soyayyar Sha'awa (kusanci + sha'awa, babu sadaukarwa); Soyayyar Abota (kusanci + sadaukarwa, babu sha'awa); Soyayyar Wauta (sha'awa + sadaukarwa, babu kusanci); da sauransu. Fahimtar alwatikarku yana bayyana daidaiton da ke akwai a yanzu, da kuma abin da dangantakarku ke buƙata.

Gwajin tambayoyi 15 na JobCannon yana auna matakan ku na dukkan abubuwa uku, yana daidaita su da tsarin Sternberg, kuma yana ba da haske game da ƙarfin dangantakarku, rauninta, da damar haɓaka.

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