βΆWhen negotiating, should I counter the first offer?
Always negotiate, even by small amounts. Golden rule: the company expects you to counter. Research market rate first (Levels.fyi by company/level). If offered $150k and market is $170k-$190k, say 'I was expecting closer to $180k based on market data for this role.' Never accept first offer without countering β you leave 10-30% on the table. Even $5k counts: over 30 years at 3% raises, that's $250k compounding.
βΆHow do I leverage multiple offers to maximize comp?
Scenario: Offer A=$150k, Offer B=$160k. Tell B: 'I have another offer at $160k, can you go higher?' If B matches, tell A: 'I have competing offer at $160k, can you match/exceed?' This triggers counter-rounds β most companies will increase 1-2x. Golden rule: only use offers you actually have. Be transparent: 'I'm comparing multiple offers, here's market data.' Companies expect this. Typical outcome: both increase 5-15%.
βΆShould I negotiate equity, bonus, and signing bonus separately?
Negotiate the entire package together, not sequentially. When company gives salary, ask: 'What's the equity grant, signing bonus, and benefits?' Price them in one conversation. Example: if base is low, push equity higher. If equity is sparse, push signing bonus. Total comp = base + (equity annual value) + bonus + sign-on. Companies have fixed budgets per level β moving between buckets is easier than increasing total spend. Get all numbers in writing before signing.
βΆWhat's a BATNA and why does it matter?
BATNA = Best Alternative to Negotiated Agreement. Before negotiating, know your walk-away number: minimum salary you'd accept if THIS offer falls through. Research: (1) Levels.fyi for your role/level/location, (2) Blind for anonymous TC posts, (3) glassdoor for company-specific ranges. If market is $160k-$190k, set BATNA at $160k. If company lowballs at $140k, walk. Your BATNA confidence makes you negotiable β no desperation leaks.
βΆCan I negotiate a higher title or different role instead of more money?
Yes, absolutely. Titles compound across future roles. IC2βIC3 means future employers price you higher, 10-20% jump. Negotiate: title, scope, team size, autonomy, reporting level together with comp. Example: 'Base is lower than market, but if the IC3 title includes staff responsibilities and mentorship, I'm more interested.' Companies sometimes have fixed salary bands per level; different title = different band = legitimately higher pay. It's a creative lever.
βΆShould I mention my current/previous salary?
NO. It's illegal to ask in many US states + EU countries. If pushed, say: 'I'd prefer to focus on market rate for this role and my target comp, not my previous history.' If forced, lie or deflect β your previous pay has zero relevance to your value. Ignore salary history questions. If form requires it, write 'N/A' or 'Prefer not to disclose.' Companies use history to anchor you low. Don't give them that anchor.
βΆWhat if they say 'take it or leave it, no negotiation'?
Walk if it's a good fit elsewhere. But this is rare β 90% of tech/startup offers have room. Counter: 'I'm very interested in the role. Based on market data for [role/location/level], I was expecting closer to $[X]. Can we find a way to make this work?' Often unlocks discussion. If they truly refuse and you walk, no harm β you've filtered out a company that lowballs. You didn't want to work there anyway.