Umbambisani
Ubumnene Obukhulu
Ozwelanayo, obambisene nabanye, futhi ogxile ekuthuleni nasekuzwaneni
Thatha isivivinyoUbumnene Obukhulu bungenye yezici ezinhlanu ze-Big Five (OCEAN) zobuntu, ezikalwa ngohlu lwemibuzo yokuzihlolela njenge-IPIP-NEO noma i-BFI-2.
Abantu abanobumnene obukhulu bayazwelana, babambisene nabanye, futhi bashukunyiswa ukugcina ukuzwana nokusekela abanye. Bathambekela ezindimeni ezivuza ukunakekela, ukubambisana, kanye nokuxhumana nabantu, njengomhlengikazi, usonhlalakahle, uthisha, umeluleki, kanye nomphathi wenkonzo yamakhasimende kuyizinto ezivamile ezibafanele. Abantu abaziwayo abanobumnene obukhulu kubalwa uDalai Lama, uMr. Rogers, uMichelle Obama, kanye nabanye abaziwa ngesihawu nokwakha ukuvumelana.
Amandla
- Ukuzwelana okuqinile kanye nokuqonda imibono yabanye
- Uyingcweti ekwakheni ukwethenjwa kanye nobudlelwane bokubambisana
- Ikhono lemvelo lokusekela nokududuza abanye
- Amakhono aqinile okulalela kanye nokuqonda imizwa yabanye
- Ugxile ezixazululweni ezizuzisa bobabili kanye nokuzwana kweqembu
Izindawo zokukhula
- Angase agweme ukungqubuzana okudingekile noma izingxoxo ezinzima
- Angase asetshenziswe kabi ngenxa yokubambisana kwakhe okuphezulu
- Angase acindezele izidingo zakhe ukugcina ukukhululeka kwabanye
- Ubunzima bokwenza izinqumo ezinzima ezidumaza abanye
- Angase abonwe njengongaqinile noma ongenagunya
Unohlobo olufanayo nalaba
Abantu abadumile abanephrofayela efanayo

Dalai Lama
Umholi wezokomoya owaziwa ngesihawu, ukuzwelana, kanye nokuzibophezela ekuzwaneni komhlaba wonke.

Mr. Rogers
Uthisha owazinikela emsebenzini wakhe wonke ekuqondeni nasekusekeleni impilo enhle yezingane.

Michelle Obama
Umuntu odumile owaziwa ngokufudumala, ukuzwelana, kanye nokuzibophezela ekusekeleni umphakathi.

Mother Teresa
Usista owazinikela ukuphila kwakhe ekukhonzeni abampofu nabahluphekayo ngesihawu.

Oprah Winfrey
Umuntu odumile kwezokusakaza osebenza ngokugxila ekulaleleni okujulile kanye noxhumano lwangempela lobuntu.
Ukufaniswa kwemisebenzi
Funda kabanzi
Imibuzo evame ukubuzwa
Kusho ukuthini ubumnene obukhulu?
Ubumnene obukhulu buchaza abantu abazwelana nabanye, abasebenzisana nabanye, futhi abagxile ekugcineni ukuvumelana. Baqonda ngokwemvelo imibono yabanye, babeka ubudlelwane phambili, futhi bashukunyiswa ukusekela nokusiza abanye.
Buyivelakancane kangakanani ubumnene obukhulu?
Ubumnene obukhulu (cishe u-16% ophezulu wabantu) bumelela cishe ukuphambuka okulodwa kwesilinganiso ngaphezu kwesilinganiso sabantu esikalini sobumnene. Abujwayelekile kangako kunobumnene obuyisilinganiso.
Yimiphi imisebenzi engcono kakhulu kubantu abanobumnene obukhulu?
Abantu abanobumnene obukhulu baphumelela ezindimeni ezigxile ebantwini nezisekelayo: umhlengikazi, usonhlalakahle, umeluleki, uthisha, umphathi wempumelelo yamakhasimende, kanye nomelaphi wengqondo kuyizindima ezibafanele kakhulu. Izindima ezivuza ukuzwelana, ukusebenzisana, kanye nokunakekela yizona ezisebenza kangcono.
Ingabe ubumnene obukhulu buhle noma bubi?
Ubumnene obukhulu buyinzuzo ezimeni eziningi zomsebenzi, ikakhulukazi ezempilo, ezinsizakalo zomphakathi, nasezindimeni ezihlangana ngqo namakhasimende. Nokho, bungaphinda bube yinselelo ezindaweni ezincintisanayo noma ezinengcindezi enkulu.
Ubumnene bukalwa kanjani?
Ubumnene bukalwa ngohlu lwemibuzo yokuzihlolela njenge-IPIP-NEO, i-BFI-2, noma i-NEO-PI-R. Lezi zihlola ukuzwelana kwakho, ukusebenzisana, isihawu, kanye nokuthambekela ekubekeni phambili izidingo zabanye nokuvumelana kweqembu.
Ngobani abanye abantu abadumile abanobumnene obukhulu?
Abavame ukuhlotshaniswa nobumnene obukhulu nguDalai Lama, uMr. Rogers, uMichelle Obama, uMother Teresa, kanye no-Oprah Winfrey. Laba bantu baziwa ngesihawu esijulile nokuzinikela ekuphileni kahle kwabanye.
Phequlula yonke imiphumela
Funda umhlahlandlela onemininingwane nganoma yimuphi umphumela: amandla, izinselelo, ukufaniswa kwemisebenzi nemibuzo evame ukubuzwa.
Okuqukethwe kwomtapo wemiphumela kwenzelwe ukufundisa, akuyona ukuhlolwa kwasemtholampilo.