Uhlolo Lokucabanga Okucaza: Imibuzo Eyi-24 Yokuzibhekameza Elungile Ekhaya
Uzama ufeza into esifanayo noma "ukuthi bekungaba yini"? Uhlolo lokuzibhekameza luqondene nokucabanga okupindisayo kanye nokumehluka kwakho. Ithuluzi lokuzibhekameza, hhayi isigamulelo somungshi.
Yini i-Uhlolo Lokucabanga Okucaza?
Lolu hlolo lubheka okucabanga okucaza ngezinne: kanigakanani umcabango ombi uyebuya yodwa ngaphandle kokuqala, kuyalutha kangakanani ukumisa umcabango lapho usuvele oluhleli, isikwele sesikathi sokufeza okudlule noma okuyozayo, futhi kanigakanani lokhu kusisindisa ukulala wakho, izinqumo zakho, nokunanga. Ndawonye, abana abaningi basebenza ndawonye bangakwazi ukuzikhombisa lokuthi okucabanga okucaza kwakho siyizilikeli elifakade noma inzwelele entsha.
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Ukucabanga izinto kabili noma kathathu kulula nokukhuthele. Okukhala umuntu ubeze okucabanga okucaza, okubheka ucwaningo lomusunguli uSusan Nolen-Hoeksema nobanye bakhe, ibonakala ndlela ehlukene: umcabango opindisayo ongemuva, wemuva, okungachubeka kwanoma yini entsha, futhi ekuqala ukumehlukela ukulala, isikhathi, noma ukunanga. Iyinto ekubaluleke nokubuka lapho umcabango oluhleli lubikhona, uhambe esikhundleni esisodwa ngaphandle kokukhethula, futhi ekuqala ukumehlukela ukulala wakho, isikhathi, noma ukunanga. Umzekelo owedwa, hhayi umndeni wakho, noma ukhethulile umkhumbi wokumehlula, yilo ayontuthuzela umkhuba onzima.
Lolu hlolo lithuluzi lokuzibhekameza, hhayi inhlelo yokugweba ngokoqobo, futhi alutsheli noma alutshibili ngumbongi onelayisensi. Likuthatha ensweni ucwaningo lokucabanga okucaza nokukhala, ikakhulukazi ensweni ye-Response Styles Theory evela kumsebenzimbi u-Nolen-Hoeksema, engumusunduzwa lapha ngolwimi oluvulingqo eluzwa uwemibuzo entsha. Uma imiphumela yakho ikhombisa ukuthi okucabanga okucaza kunomthelela kukulala, izinqumo, noma ukubalwa khona, umtherapist othile ozwakalwisizwe nokucabanga okucaza kulandelela kuhle: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) kanye nemetacognitive therapy zombili zinengqikithi eningi lokugcina lokhu kuhlobo komsunguli wemuva.