Uhlolo Lokuthakatheka: Imibuzo Eyi-20 Yokuzibhekameza Elungile Ekhaya
Ukuzibhekameza kulozinne: ukuthakatheka okupindisayo, izimpawu zomzimba, uthenta owesondo, nokugwema. Imibuzo engama-20, isifinyezo esisheshile. Ithuluzi lokuzibhekameza, hhayi isigamulelo somungshi.
Yini i-Uhlolo Lokuthakatheka?
Lolu hlolo lubheka ukuthakatheka ngezinne: ukuthakatheka okupindisayo (izisulu ezithile zokutheta okushisayo kuze kopumula imizuzu, ivamile ngaphandle kwesizatho), izimpawu zomzimba nokucabanga (inhliziyo eya ngeshatu, ukulimza okushisayo, ukungaziswa, nokuthenta okuthiswayo emgqomeni), uthenta owesondo (uthenta onokulinda, phakathi kwezikhathi, nokuthiwa umuntu bakuzoba lokuthakatheka kuphela), nokugwema (izindawo, izinto, noma izinqumo ozishintshile ukuze ungeke ukuthakatheka). Imibuzo engama-20, isikwele esincane, isifinyezo esiyinzwele oyingakuthatha engxoxweni.
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Isikhathi esisodwa sokuthakatheka ngesikhathi esisindiswe, asini fani nokuthakatheka. Naningi abantu bafaka isikhathi esisodwa sokuthata okushisayo, futhi kunaningi kwawo asibuyele kube nkhuba. Ukuthakatheka yinto eyenzeka lapho ukuthakatheka okubuye, lapho uthenta onokulinda umzuzu owakukhulu, nokutheta okuthakatheka ekuqala ukumehlukela indawo ofika. Lapho ufika emomenta emanda, umuntu othole amapulazi ephakhasinda, ukhuma, nokuthenta okubonakala ungosindiswe, okubheka umuntu okuthakatheka ibkhona kumuthelo owenziwa umuntu abaningi—futhi akusho yini okushone ngempela. Iyinkomo yokusindi, hhayi ubufakazi bokuthi ubufakazi bubuyela.
Lolu hlolo lihluke kuhlolo lokuthenta, olubheka uthenta ongekakutsi oyedwa umuntu, nokuthenta okumuntu, olubheka okuthanta okuthambekele emizini; ukuthakatheka yinkhuba eyayo: ukuthakatheka, zisulu, futhi ivamile ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ithuluzi lokuzibhekameza, hhayi ukuxilongwa, futhi akusikhundlela sokundlela ngochwepheshe onelayisensi, umuntu ongumbongi, noma umdokotela. Uma imiphumela yakho izwakala iqondene nawe, umuntu ongumbongi ogcwele ukuthakatheka iyinzalamane elungile: Uhlelo lokwenza kube nzima (CBT) olwemuva lokwazi iqonde nomuntu azizwa ukuthakatheka ngokukhulu, futhi umuthelo angasiza uma uhambanisa nesikhundla.