Uhlolo Lokulungela Ukwelulekwa Lwamahhala: Imibuzo 18
Uzibuza ukuthi ukwelulekwa kungakusiza yini? Uhlolo lokuzicabangela olunemibuzo engu-18 mayelana nengcindezi, umthelela wansuku zonke, ukusekelwa, nokuthi uvulekile kangakanani ukukuzama. Kuwuhlolo lokuzicabangela, hhayi ukuxilongwa.
Yini i-Uhlolo Lokulungela Ukwelulekwa?
Lolu hlolo lubheka ukuthi ukwelulekwa kungase kufanele kucutshungulwe ngezigaba ezine zansuku zonke: ukuthi usuthwele kangakanani ingcindezi noma imizwa esindayo muva nje (ingcindezi yamanje), ukuthi kuyangena yini emsebenzini wakho, ebudlelwaneni, ekulaleni, noma ezintweni obuzijabulela (umthelela ekuphileni), abantu nemikhuba osuvele wenqamela kubo lapho izinto zinzima (izinsiza zokumelana nezinto), kanye nokuthi usuvele uzwa uvulekile noma unentshisekelo engakanani ngomqondo wokukhuluma nochwepheshe (ukuvuleka ekwelulekweni). Kunye, lezi zine zinikeza isithombe esigcwele kunombuzo owodwa: abantu ababili bangaba bobabili phansi kwengcindezi yangempela kodwa baphinde bathole ukuthi bakwazindawo ezihluke kakhulu, kuye ngokuthi banosizo olungakanani asebenavo nokuthi bazizwa bekulungele kangakanani ukuzama okusha.
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Kukhona inganekwane evamile yokuthi ukwelulekwa kungokwabantu abasekungozini kuphela, futhi lokhu kuvimbela abantu abaningi ababengazuza ngempela kulokhu ukuthi bake balicwaninge nakanye. Empeleni, abantu abaningi abaqala ukwelulekwa abekho esimeni esiphuthumayo: babhekene nengcindezi ejwayelekile ehlale isikhathi eside kancane, iphethini yobudlelwane abangeke bakwazi ukuyixazulula bodwa, noma nje umuzwa oqhubekayo wokuthi ukukhuluma nomuntu ongaphandle kwempilo yabo kungabasiza babone izinto ngokucacile kakhulu. Ukuzwa sengathi izinkinga zakho 'azikho zinzima ngokwanele' kungenye yezizathu ezivame kakhulu ezenza abantu bahlehlise into ebingase ibasize ngempela, futhi ivame ukungabi iqiniso.
Lolu hlolo luwuhlolo lokuzicabangela, hhayi ithuluzi lokuxilonga kwezokwelapha noma uhlolo lwezokwelapha, futhi alutshali indawo yengxoxo nochwepheshe onelayisensi. Lwakhiwe ngesethi yemibuzo yokuqala ngqa mayelana nengcindezi, umthelela, ukusekelwa, nokuvuleka, hhayi noma yiliphi izinga elilodwa lezokwelapha, ngakho phatha umphumela wakho njengesiqalo sokuzindla kunesinqumo. Noma yiliphi izinga oliphumelela kulo, akukho impendulo engalungile: siyisithombe nje sokuthi ukuphi njengamanje, futhi kufana ngokulingana ukuhamba unqume ukuthi uzinzile njengamanje njengoba kunjalo ukunqume ukuthi namuhla usuku lokucwaninga ukwelulekwa.