Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)
Extreme emotional pain triggered by perceived rejection or criticism. Common in ADHD — not a formal diagnosis but a widely recognized experience. Can feel like physical pain.
RSD (described by William Dodson, MD) is an intense emotional response to perceived rejection, criticism, or failure. For people with ADHD, the pain of rejection can be overwhelming — described as "a punch to the gut" or "the world collapsing."
RSD is thought to relate to ADHD's dopamine dysregulation — the emotional regulatory system can't moderate the pain response. It can manifest as: people-pleasing to avoid rejection, avoiding trying new things (can't fail if you don't try), explosive anger at perceived slights, or withdrawal.
RSD is not in the DSM but is widely recognized in ADHD clinical practice. Understanding it helps ADHD people distinguish between "they actually rejected me" and "my RSD is amplifying normal feedback." In Big Five terms, RSD maps to the intersection of high Neuroticism and high Agreeableness.
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