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Uhlobo Lwethandekazi - Ubuhlobo Obuhle

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Yini Uhlobo Lwethandekazi?

I-Uhlobo Lwethandekazi ithesti yobuhlobo yejapaniyane ethathi ubuhlobo bakho njengoba ushintsha, hhayi njengoba uthanda. Imibuzo engu-8 emahumusha ibandela inzira yakho nge-axes enine, ekhiqiza ikhodi enezinhlamvu ezine. EJapani yiyo ilandela ihlanganisela le-MBTI yokuthatha uhlobo lwobuhlobo: ifuthi, ethile, nelishare nabangani.

Axes enine yilezi: Umukhononda noma Umlandeli (ngubani othatha isigwebo), Okuqhumbuza noma Okuvula (kufuywani noma umphakama), Okuthandile noma Okwemoya (uthule noma okubumbutselile), kanye noKunethemba noma Ukugcina Ilungelo (ithemba noma umsebenzi wakho). Umuntu ohlala nge-LCRO yenye ezinhlobo, nkosikazi FAPE yenye ehlukile. Ubikho namazinhlobo amabili akho okusindiswa, ngakho ubona eziphi izinhlelo zikuthola ezizalisana.

Kuqhubekelele nokufunda

Lokunye kuthesti lokuzijabulisa nokuziqonda emvakalweni yejapaniyane, hhayi ithuluzi letingelane noma elibhalwe emfundweni, futhi ayikho isiqiniso sokubikezela indlela isonto ezobuye. Landelela ikhodi njengomhlangano okhuluma, hhayi njengokutolakala. Embili ukuthi ishintshwe umuntu owakho kanye nesikhathi sokusulela, futhi buyala ithesti lapho lokhu kushintsha.

Lokho Ozozithola

Ikhodi yakho enezinhlamvu ezine kanye nouhlobo lwakho, okunye kwangu-16

Ukusotshwa kwakho nge-axis ngayinye: Umukhononda noma Umlandeli, Okuqhumbuza noma Okuvula, Okuthandile noma Okwemoya, Kunethemba noma Ukugcina Ilungelo

Indlela uhlobo lwakho enqumayo omuntu owakho, elukhanyeni nalulwalipazi, kuhlanganisa nemithetho emuntu ayawela kuqala

Amandla amabili ayinhloko alobholo lwakho kanye nomqobo owodwa wokukhangela emqandweni

Isikhakhi sokukhathalela nge-axis, ngakho isicindwi esingu-55/45 siwayelana nesikhathi esingu-95/5

Amazinhlobo amabili akho okusindiswa kahle kanye enhloso yokuba ngiyeni amacala alungile

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Uma ubudlelwano bakho budinga isinqumo — ukuthi niya kuphi, ukuthi kwenzekani okulandelayo — umuzwa wakho wokuqala uthini?

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Indlela Isebenza Ngayo

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Imibuzo 8, 1 iminithi. Ayazisulisela—ayikho okwenjenje omuntu.
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Okuboniswe kabini yobu wakho. Mahhala, okusetshenziswayo, okugcinile nxa ubhalise.
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Qonda kabanzi
Epremiyamu ivula imphumela ephelele—umsebenzi, amandla, umhlela othuthuka.

Imibuzo Evame Ukubuzwa

Lithini i-Uhlobo Lwethandekazi?

Ithesti engu-8 embuzo ethothalisa ubuhlobo bakho okushintsha kwezakhi enine kuyabuyisa ikhodi enezinhlamvu enine kanye nokunye konezinhlobo angu-16, isibonelo LCRO, Ingatsha Evuthwa. Imibuzo icacisa amapindi angempela, njengokukhethela umuntu noma ukubuyela emva kokunqoba isikhathi esikhulu, ngakho uphendule ngezo oshintsha kahle. Umphumelelo ubonisa uhlobo lwakho, isikhakhi nge-axis ngayinye, amandla amabili, umqobo owodwa kanye nezinhlobo ezambili zokusindiswa.

Ayini ama-axes amane e-Uhlobo Lwethandekazi?

Umukhononda noma Umlandeli unwumuntu othatha isigwebo ngokwendalo lapho izwi lidinga isigwebo. Okuqhumbuza noma Okuvula kuwukusotshwa kokuqhumbuza noma umphakama: ukuthi ukukhombisa kanye nokuzwa uthando ngokuqhumbuza noma ngosikebane. Okuthandile noma Okwemoya kuthula, kulungile uthando noma okubumbutselile okwethando. Kunethemba noma Ukugcina Ilungelo kuwumuntu othamba noma ogcina ilungelo emgqonqweni okunzima. Impendulo zakho nge-axis ngayinye zama kuzakhi ikhodi.

Ingakanani izinhlobo zothando, yini amazinhlobo amabili akho okusindiswa?

Kuningi angu-16, okunye kukunye kwakumbo okushintsha kwe-axes enine, kusukela LCRO kuye FAPE. Okunye kunomuntu wakho, okufunde kumfutshane, amandla amabili kanye nomqobo owodwa. Amazinhlobo amabili akho okusindiswa yilezo eziphetshena zakho esilwa sithathi balwezo, isibonelo umuntu wakho othatha isigwebo ungiselela lapho wena uthatha ngiselele umuntu. Yizibonelo zokuqonda, hhayi isiqiniso sokuthi kunoma okushintshwe noma okungashintshwe.

Indlela i-Uhlobo Lwethandekazi ekugcine ehlukileyo i-Sternberg uthando unxantathu?

I-Uhlobo Lwethandekazi icacisa indlela ushintsha njengomuntu owakho: ukuthi othatha isigwebo, uthananda kuqhumbuza, uzwa uthando kanye nokusala umthwala. I-Sternberg unxantathu luthando wumhlangano womfundo ocacisa isonto nge-closeness, okubumbutselile kanye nokusala umuntu. Uma uthanda ukubheka isonto sinye, i-Sternberg ithesti ibalekile kahle. Uma uthanda ukushayelela ubuhlobo bakho, lokunye ithesti ibenza umsebenzi.

Yini i-Uhlobo Lwethandekazi esayinsi?

Cha. Ithesti lokuzijabulisa nokuziqonda emvakalweni yejapaniyane, hhayi ithuluzi letingelane noma elibhalwe emfundweni wothando, futhi ayikho isiqiniso sokubikezela indlela isonto ezobuye. Axes zakho enine yindlela elula yokuhlanganisa indlela abantu bakhuluma ngubuhlobo, ngakho zithelezise umphumelelo njengokuthinta kocabanga kanye nengcwabucwaba, hhayi njengokutolakala noma isikhwephezi somuntu.

Ingabe uHlobo Lwami Lothando lungashintsha?

Yebo. Imizwa yakho iyashintsha njengoba unolwazi olusha, ngokususela kumuntu onaye, nangesigaba sokuphila osukuso, ngakho ukuphinda uhlolo kamuva kungakhiqiza ikhodi ehlukile. Abantu abaningi bathola ukuthi ukuthambekela kwabo kwi-axis eyodwa noma ezimbili kuhlala kuzinzile ngenkathi ezinye zishintsha. Ngenxa yokuthi i-axis ngayinye ilinganiselwa ngokusekelwe kusipektramu, umphumela oseduze nendawo ephakathi kwe-axis yiwona onethuba elikhulu lokushintsha ngokulandelayo.