Uhlolele Wokuvalwa & Okwesinye Sehlule, Uhlolele Omahhala Lwezilandalelo Ezingu-20
Uzizwa ngathi awukho lapha, izinto zibonakala zingelona iqiniso, noma awazi ukuthi isikhathi sihambe kanjani? Ukuzibhekameza okuhlanganisa izici ezine: ukuzizwa uhlukene nomzimba wakho noma imizwa yakho, izinto ezikuzungezile ezibonakala zingelona iqiniso, ukungena ngokujulile emcabangweni kanye nokulahlekelwa isikhathi, kanye namagebe enkumbulo ezinsukwini zonke. Lolu hlolo yithuluzi lokuzibhekameza, hhayi isigamulelo somungshi.
Yini i-Uhlolele Wokuvalwa & Okwesinye Sehlule?
Lolu hlolo lubheka izinto ezine ezivamile ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, izinto iningi labantu elingazinaki ngaphandle kokuzethula. Ukuzizwa Uhlukene Nomzimba Wakho kuqondene nalapho ngezinye izikhathi uzizwa sengathi uzibukela ususukela ngaphandle komzimba wakho, noma imizwa yakho izwakala icishile, njengokungathi ikude ngemuva kwengilazi. Ukungabi Yiqiniso Kwezinto Ezikuzungezile kuqondene nalapho indawo, umuntu, noma into oyaziyo kahle, ngokuzumayo, ibonakala inganakiwe kahle, ikude, noma injengasephusheni, nakuba kungekho okushintshile ngempela kuyo. Ukungena Ngokujulile Emcabangweni Nokulahlekelwa Isikhathi kubheka ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukuthi ungene ngokujulile encwadini, emcabangweni wephupho lokuzicabangela, noma emicabangweni yakho, size sinyamalale isikhathi kanye nomhlaba ozungezile. Futhi Amagebe Enkumbulo Ezinsukwini Zonke abheka ukuthi izikhathi ezijwayelekile, njengokushayela imoto, ingxoxo, noma umsebenzi omncane, ziyanyamalala yini enkumbulweni, ngezinye izikhathi zivele kamuva njengobufakazi ongasazi ukuthi buvela kuphi.
Funda KabanziBonisa Kancane
Kufanele kushiwo ngokusobala: incane yakho konke lokhu iyingxenye yobuntu. Ukulahlekelwa ihora ufunda incwadi enhle, ukufika endaweni ungakhumbuli ukuthi ushayele kanjani, noma indawo ibonakale ingajwayelekile umzuzwana ngemuva kobusuku obubi bokulala, lokhu kwenzeka kucishe kubo bonke abantu ngezinye izikhathi, ikakhulukazi lapho ukhathazekile, ukhathele, noma udabukile. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngabe izinto eziningana kulezi zivela kanyekanye njengomkhuba, ngabe kuyinto entsha kuwe, ngabe iyaqhubeka, futhi ngabe isiqala ukuphazamisa umsebenzi wakho, ubudlelwane bakho, noma indlela ozizwa ngayo ukuthi ukuphila kwakho kuyaqhubeka ngokungaphazamiseki.
Lolu hlolo yithuluzi lokuzibhekameza, hhayi ukuxilongwa, futhi akulona isikhundla sokuhlolwa ngudokotela onelayisensi. Lubheka ngqo izinto zansuku zonke ezifana nokuzizwa uhlukene nomzimba wakho, ukungabi yiqiniso kwezinto ezikuzungezile, ukungena ngokujulile emcabangweni, kanye namagebe enkumbulo; akulona ithuluzi lokuhlola i-Dissociative Identity Disorder noma yikuphi ukuxilongwa okunye, futhi ukuhlolwa okugcwele ngudokotela ongumchwepheshe onelayisensi kuphela okungakunika lokho. Uma lokho okubonayo kuzwakala kuyinto entsha, kukhathaza, noma sekuqala ukuphazamisa ukuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke, kuhle ukuxoxa nodokotela noma ochwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo maduzane, kunokulinda. E-UK, lokho kungaqala ngodokotela wakho wemvelo (GP) noma i-NHS 111. e-US, udokotela wokunakekelwa okuyisisekelo noma inkonzo yezempilo yengqondo yasekolishi lakho noma yomphakathi wakho iyindawo enhle yokuqala.