Salon Faɗan Soyayya
Gano yadda kuke faɗa da abokin/abokiyar zaman ku. Gwaji kyauta mai tambayoyi 20 yana ba ku maki a cikin salolin magance saɓani guda biyar, Tsayawa Tsayin Daka, Warwarewa Tare, Haɗuwa a Tsakiya, Kaucewa, da Bada Kai, wanda aka gina don alaƙoƙin soyayya maimakon ofis.
Babu buƙatar yin rajista — sakamakonku zai bayyana nan take.
Two-axis conflict-handling model
- Salon faɗan ku mafi rinjaye a cikin dukkan salolin guda biyar
- Yadda salon ku yake a idon abokin/abokiyar zaman ku a lokacin jayayya
- Inda salon ku na asali ke jawo muku asara a hankali, koda kuwa kuna jin kun ci faɗan
- Yadda salon faɗan ku ke dacewa da abokin/abokiyar zama wanda ke kaucewa, tsayawa tsayin daka, ko bada kai
Tambayoyi ne na JobCannon, wanda aka gina akan sanannen tunanin ginshiƙai biyu game da yadda mutane ke magance saɓani (yaya kuke tsayawa kan bukatun ku da kuma yaya kuke ƙoƙarin biyan na ɗayan), wanda aka yi amfani da shi a nan ga alaƙoƙin soyayya maimakon wurin aiki. Yana bayyana halayenku a cikin faɗa kuma an yi shi ne don tunani kan kai, ba don tantancewa ba.
Babu wani salon da ke da muni kai tsaye. Kowane ɗayan yana da wurinsa, tsayawa tsayin daka na iya zama da muhimmanci a cikin ainihin rikici, bada kai na iya zama da muhimmanci lokacin da batun ƙarami ne, amma dogaro da salon guda ɗaya ga kowane faɗa, babba ko ƙarami, shine yawanci abin da ke haifar da mafi yawan lahani a tsawon lokaci.
Tunanin asali iri ɗaya ne, amma fage daban. Salolin Magance Saɓani yana auna yadda kuke magance rashin jituwa a wurin aiki; Salon Faɗan Soyayya yana auna saloli biyar iri ɗaya musamman a cikin saɓanin soyayya, tare da yanayin da ya shafi abokan zama maimakon abokan aiki.
Eh, wannan ita ce manufar. Ku yi shi daban-daban, sannan ku gwada, haɗin “Tsayin Daka” da “Kau da Kai” ya sha bamban da na mutane biyu da dukansu suka zaɓi “Magance Matsalar Tare”, kuma sanin wane irin haɗi kuke ciki zai bayyana abubuwa da yawa game da ainihin jayayyarku.