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Sternberg Love Triangle

Take the free Sternberg Triangular Love test online. Measure intimacy, passion, and commitment in your relationship and discover what kind of love you share. 15 questions, instant results.

15 questions1 min

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Triangular Theory of Love (Sternberg)

What you'll discover
  • Your scores across intimacy, passion, and commitment
  • Which of Sternberg's love types best describes your current relationship
  • Your relationship's strongest component and how it anchors your bond
  • Which component most needs nurturing to move toward consummate love
FAQ
  • Intimacy is the feeling of closeness, connectedness, and emotional support. Passion is the drive of romance, physical attraction, and sexual desire. Commitment is the decision to love someone and maintain the relationship. Different combinations of these three create eight distinct love types.

  • Consummate Love, all three components present at high levels, is what many consider the complete or ideal form of love. Sternberg acknowledged it is difficult to achieve and even harder to maintain, as passion naturally diminishes over time without active nurturing.

  • Yes. You can reflect on a past relationship, an ideal relationship, or answer based on how you generally approach romantic relationships. The results are insightful for understanding your relational patterns regardless of your current status.

  • The Triangular Theory has substantial empirical support. Sternberg's own Triangular Love Scale (used as the basis for this assessment) demonstrates good reliability and has been validated across diverse cultures and relationship types.