How is love bombing different from genuine enthusiasm?

Genuine enthusiasm is proportionate and sustainable. Love bombing is extreme, fast, and followed by devalue. "I love you" on date 2, constant contact, grand gestures, talk of future—then suddenly withdrawn when they feel secure.

Why do people love bomb?

To establish control and create dependency. Once you're emotionally invested, they can withdraw reward, keeping you off-balance. It's a manipulation tactic used by narcissists, people with cluster B disorders, or insecurely attached individuals.

What should I do if I recognize love bombing?

Slow down. Ask questions. Notice if they devalue you or others. Trust your discomfort. You don't need to accuse them—just create space and see if the intensity drops (it usually does). That's your cue to leave.