Izimpendulo Zamaphuzu Aqinile Nobuthakathaka Ngephrofayela Yobuchule

“Yimaphi amaphuzu akho aqinile nobuthakathaka?” ngumbuzo abantu abaningi abawesabayo, futhi iphrofayela yokuzilinganisa iyindawo enhle yokuqala ukuwuphendula, ngoba isivele yenze ukuhlunga kokuqala. Izinhlobo eziyisithupha zobuchule, amagama amathathu amazinga: Kuqinile, Kuyathuthuka, Isigaba sokuqala. Umsebenzi wakho manje wukuguqula amabili alawo magama abe yizindaba ezimbili ezimfushane neziyiqiniso. Lo mhlahlandlela ukhombisa ukuthi kanjani, ngomusho oyisibonelo wohlobo ngalunye lobuchule kanye nefomu lokugcwalisa ekugcineni.

Sebenzisa iphrofayela njengesikhumbuzo, hhayi njengempendulo

Isivivinyo Sobuchule se-JobCannon silinganisa ukuthi uthi wenza kaningi kangakanani izinto ngezindlela eziyisithupha: ukuxhumana, ukuxazulula izinkinga, ubuholi nokuthatha isinyathelo, ukuhlela nokuhleleka, ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kanye nokusebenza ngokubambisana. Lokho kukunika uhlu lokuqala. Akuyona impendulo, ngoba ukuthi “ekuxhumaneni ngithole elithi Kuqinile” akutsheli olalele lutho mayelana nalokho okwenzayo ngoLwesithathu olujwayelekile.

Khumbula ukuthi izinombolo ziyini. Isivivinyo siqopha incazelo yakho ngemikhuba yakho. Asisona isivivinyo samandla okwenza, asiqinisekisiwe, futhi asibikezeli impumelelo emsebenzini. Ngakho thatha igama lezinga ngalinye njengesiqagelo sokuqala sokuthi ubheke kuphi, bese ulihlola ngokukhumbula. Ungasho isikhathi owenza ngaso leyo nto? Iphuzu eliqinile ongakwazi ukulisekela ngesikhathi esithile alikalungeli ukusetshenziswa. Ubuthakathaka ongasho isikhathi sabo bona sebulungile.

Khetha iphuzu elilodwa eliqinile bese uvumela libonise ubufakazi balo

Khetha ezinhlobeni zobuchule ezithe Kuqinile, kodwa ukhethe ngokuhambisana nomsebenzi: lolo isikhundla esilusebenzisa kakhulu, hhayi lolo olunephesenti eliphezulu kakhulu. Bese wakha impendulo ngezingxenye ezintathu ezilula: lokho okwenzayo, lapho kwenzeka khona, nalokho okwaba ngumphumela wakho.

“Ngiyakwazi kahle ukuhlela” kuyisimangalo. “Lapho usuku lokwethula lushintsha, ngakha kabusha uhlu lwemisebenzi ngaleyo ntambama futhi ngatshela abantu umsebenzi wabo owawushintshile” kuwubufakazi. Awudingi indaba emangalisayo. Inothi lokudlulisela umsebenzi othile angenza ngalo okuthile ngaphandle kokukushayela ucingo lanele impela.

Melana nesilingo sokugcwalisa iphuzu eliqinile ngezichasiso. “Umuntu ohleleke kakhulu, ogxile emiphumeleni, oziqalela izinto” kungashiwo yinoma ubani, futhi akekho ongakubona ngeso lengqondo.

Khetha ubuthakathaka obubodwa obungokwangempela futhi obunesixazululo esisebenzayo

Impendulo enhle mayelana nobuthakathaka inezingxenye ezintathu. Umkhuba: lokho ovame ukukwenza ngempela. Izindleko: indlela encane neyangempela okuye kwaphazamisa ngayo. Isixazululo: lokho okwenzayo manje, ngesenzo esithile nesikhathi ophinda ngaso, njengokuthi “Ngibhala phansi okungikhathaza kakhulu ngaphambi komhlangano ngamunye.” Bukhethe ezinhlobeni zakho zobuchule ezithe Kuyathuthuka noma Isigaba sokuqala, futhi kungcono kungabi yilolo olusenkabeni yomsebenzi.

“Ngisebenza kakhulu ngokweqile.” “Ngikhathalela kakhulu ngokweqile.” “Ngifuna yonke into iphelele.” Ngakunye kuyiphuzu eliqinile eligqoke okokuzifihla, futhi olalele uyakwazi lokho. Futhi akukushiyi nalutho ongalusho mayelana nesixazululo, ngoba akukho okufanele kulungiswe. Ubuthakathaka bangempela abukhululekile kancane ukubusho ngokuzwakalayo. Uma kungakubizi lutho ukubusho, mhlawumbe abusibo obangempela.

Iphutha eliphambene nalo alisizi ngendlela efanayo: ubuthakathaka obukukhipha emncintiswaneni womsebenzi emshweni wabo wokuqala. Ufuna obungokwangempela, obunesixazululo esesiqalile ukusebenza. Ukuze uthole inguqulo ekhulunywayo, bheka ukuthi ungakhuluma kanjani ngokuzihlola kwakho enhlolokhonweni.

Umusho owodwa wephuzu eliqinile nowodwa wobuthakathaka ohlotsheni ngalunye lobuchule

Lezi yizindlela eziyisibonelo zokukusho ongazivumelanisa nesimo sakho. Sebenzisa imininingwane yakho, futhi ungabolekeli indaba ongazange uyiphile.

• Ukuxhumana. Iphuzu eliqinile: “Ngibhala amanothi okudlulisela umsebenzi umuntu angenza ngawo okuthile ngaphandle kokungibuza lutho: okwenziwe, okuvinjiwe, nokuthi ubani onquma okulandelayo.” Ubuthakathaka: “Emihlanganweni ngiyathula uma ngingavumelani bese ngikhuluma kamuva, lapho kungasasizi kangako. Manje ngibhala phansi okungikhathaza kakhulu kusengaphambili bese ngikusho kuqala.”
• Ukuxazulula Izinkinga. Iphuzu eliqinile: “Uma into ethile iphuka, ngibhala phansi engikwaziyo nengikuqagelayo ngaphambi kokuthinta noma yini, ukuze izixazululo zami zingangqwabelani phezu kwezinye.” Ubuthakathaka: “Ngigxumela embangeleni yokuqala ebonakala inengqondo futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngilungisa into engeyona. Manje ngibhala ezinye izimbangela ezimbili ezingenzeka ngaphambi kokuthi ngenze okuthile.”
• Ubuholi Nokuthatha Isinyathelo. Iphuzu eliqinile: “Uma kungekho onomthwalo womsebenzi othile, ngiqamba umuntu ozoba nomthwalo nosuku, futhi ngiyajabula uma kungaba ngomunye umuntu.” Ubuthakathaka: “Ngiyazigodla ukuqondisa iqembu ngaphandle uma ngicelwe, ngakho izinqumo zilokhu zibambezeleka. Manje ngivula umhlangano olandelayo ngesinqumo esiphakanyisiwe esikhundleni sokulinda.”
• Ukuhlela Nokuhleleka. Iphuzu eliqinile: “Ngithatha umnqamulajuqu ngiwuhlukanise ngibuyela emuva ube yizinyathelo ezinezinsuku, futhi ngiveza ukubambezeleka ngosuku lokuqala, hhayi ngolokugcina.” Ubuthakathaka: “Ngihlela indlela engenazithiyo bese ngingazibali ngokwanele iziphazamiso. Manje ngigcina usuku olulodwa lokuphepha ngaphambi kwanoma yiluphi usuku oluthenjwa ngomunye umuntu.”
• Ukuzivumelanisa Nezimo. Iphuzu eliqinile: “Lapho izinto eziza kuqala zishintsha phakathi nesonto, ngahlela kabusha uhlu lwami ngalokho kusa futhi ngatshela abantu abathintekayo ukuthi yini eshintshile.” Ubuthakathaka: “Ushintsho olungazelele lungicasula usuku lonke futhi lwehlise ijubane lomsebenzi wami. Manje ngiqala ngokubuza umbuzo owodwa: yini eshintshile, futhi yini ehlala injalo?”
• Ukusebenza Ngokubambisana. Iphuzu eliqinile: “Ngiyahlola ukuthi ozakwethu ubambekile yini ngaphambi kokuthi umsebenzi wami uphele, futhi ngibonga abantu ngokubaqamba ngamagama.” Ubuthakathaka: “Ngithatha imisebenzi yabanye esikhundleni sokubacela ukuthi bayiqede, ngakho ngigcwala umsebenzi omningi kakhulu futhi bona abakaze bafunde. Manje ngithi ‘Ngingasiza ngale ngxenye, hhayi ngakho konke.’”

Ifomu lokugcwalisa

Qala ngokukubhala ephepheni, bese ukusho ngokuzwakalayo kanye. Okusemabakakini ngakunye kufanele ekugcineni kube yinto ozakwenu ayengakubona uyenza.

1. Indawo engiqine kakhulu kuyo ngu-[uhlobo lobuchule], futhi ngalokho ngisho [incazelo elula yesenzo].
2. Isibonelo, [isimo]: ngenza [lokho okwenzile], futhi [lokho okwenzeka].
3. Indawo engisayakha ngu-[uhlobo lobuchule], lapho ngivame ukwenza [umkhuba, ushiwo ngokwethembeka].
4. Lokhu kuye kwangibangela [umphumela omncane nowangempela].
5. Engikwenzayo ngakho manje: [umkhuba othile], [kangaki], futhi ngiyabona ukuthi uyasebenza lapho [uphawu omunye umuntu angalubona].

Izinto ezintathu zokuhlola ngaphambi kokusebenzisa impendulo

• Ingabe ozakwenu angasiqinisekisa isibonelo sephuzu eliqinile uma umhloli engamshayela ucingo?
• Ingabe ubuthakathaka bubiza okuthile kwangempela, futhi ingabe ungaba nokungabaza kancane ukubusho?
• Ingabe isixazululo siqukethe isenzo nesikhathi ophinda ngaso, hhayi nje ukuthi “Ngiyakusebenzela”?

Uma izimpendulo zakho ziphuma zingacacile, ikhambi wubufakazi obengeziwe, hhayi izichasiso ezingcono. Inyanga yokuzijwayeza okuncane okulandelelwayo ikunika lokho kanye, futhi isihloko esithi yakha uhlobo olulodwa lobuchule bomsebenzi ezinsukwini ezingu-30 sichaza ukuthi kanjani. Uma ufuna isithombe esiphelele sokuthi ngamunye kwalokhu okuyisithupha kusho ukuthini emsebenzini wansuku zonke, funda izinhlobo eziyisithupha eziyinhloko zobuchule bomsebenzi zichaziwe, kanti ohlangothini lwamakhono, Uhlolo Lwamakhono luhambisana ne-Isivivinyo Sobuchule.