What is romantic love in Sternberg's model?

Romantic love combines intimacy (emotional closeness) and passion (physical and emotional excitement) without commitment. Partners feel deeply connected and physically attracted but haven't decided on a long-term future.

Why is romantic love thrilling but unstable?

The combination of emotional closeness and passion creates intense highs and connection. Without commitment, however, either partner can exit, and the relationship can dissolve quickly if passion or intimacy fades.

How does romantic love typically develop into consummate love?

As romantic love progresses and the relationship strengthens, partners naturally move toward commitment. Time together, shared challenges, and deepened vulnerability typically trigger the decision to build a long-term future together.

Is romantic love necessary before commitment?

Not always. Some relationships start with passion only and develop intimacy. Others begin with liking and grow into romantic love. However, romantic love increases the likelihood of both partners committing willingly.